 A Blog about Sensory Processing Sensitivity from the Worldview of a High-Sensing Male
Word Count: 1114 Estimated Reading Time: 4:41 minutes. As awareness grows around the trait of high sensitivity, more men are discovering that their deep empathy, emotional responsiveness, and heightened sensory awareness are not signs of weakness but reflections of an innate and scientifically recognized temperament trait. Yet, despite this growing recognition, highly sensitive men (HSPs) continue to face significant barriers when seeking therapy, coaching, or mentorship that truly understands their unique needs. Traditional therapeutic models often fail to account for the deep processing and emotional nuance that define high sensitivity. Without informed, empathetic guidance, HSP men can feel misunderstood, mislabeled, or even pathologized. To meet this challenge, we need therapists, coaches, and mentors who are not just sympathetic but specifically trained to work with highly sensitive individuals—particularly sensitive men. Why HSP-Informed Therapy Matters High sensitivity, also known as Sensory Processing Sensitivity (SPS), is a temperament trait found in roughly 15-20% of the population, equally distributed across genders. It was first identified and researched by psychologist Dr. Elaine Aron in the 1990s. Recent studies, including research by Lionetti et al. (2023) in the Journal of Personality, affirm that HSPs thrive in supportive, emotionally attuned environments. However, when exposed to invalidating or overstimulating settings, they are more prone to distress and burnout. This is particularly relevant for men, who often grow up under cultural pressures to suppress emotional expression, toughen up, and dismiss their sensitivity. In therapy, these men may encounter clinicians who unintentionally reinforce harmful stereotypes or fail to recognize the ways sensitivity shapes their client's inner world. For HSP men, therapy that lacks attunement can feel alienating rather than healing. What HSP-Informed Therapy Looks Like Effective therapy for HSPs is grounded in emotional attunement, depth of processing, and a respectful awareness of sensory and relational intensity. Therapists trained in HSP-informed practice will:
Unfortunately, most therapists receive little to no training in working with highly sensitive clients, much less in addressing the intersection of high sensitivity and masculinity. This education gap must be urgently addressed. Current Resources for HSP Men For those seeking HSP-informed support, the search can be frustrating. Here are some of the more reliable resources currently available:
The Need for a Centralized and Continuously Updated HSP Therapist Directory One of the greatest barriers HSP men face is simply finding the right support. A centralized, well-maintained database of HSP-informed therapists is urgently needed. Ideally, such a database would:
Currently, the ICHS directory is a promising model but is limited in size and reach. The database cannot serve the growing global need without broader professional buy-in and institutional support. A Strategic Proposal: Updating Existing Therapist Directories One actionable step forward would be collaborating with platforms like Psychology Today and TherapyDen to integrate a new designation: "Trained in HSP Therapy" or "HSP-Aware Therapist." This could be implemented as a voluntary credentialing feature that therapists opt into by completing recognized HSP training programs. Such a designation would:
An open letter or formal proposal to these directories—perhaps supported by the ICHS or other advocacy groups—could initiate this change. The impact would be significant, especially for underserved groups like highly sensitive men who often avoid therapy after one negative experience. The Call for More Therapist Training Beyond directories, we must expand HSP-specific training in graduate counseling programs, continuing education offerings, and professional development conferences. Training providers like the ICHS could partner with national organizations such as the American Psychological Association (APA) and the American Counseling Association (ACA) to incorporate HSP modules into their standard curricula. Additionally, community-based efforts—such as workshops, webinars, and local support groups—can help both therapists and clients develop a deeper understanding of sensitivity-informed care. This dual approach, top-down (institutional) and grassroots (community), will be critical to creating lasting change. An Action Plan for HSP Advocates To make progress, we need a community-led action plan that includes:
Conclusion: The Future of Sensitive Support The journey toward greater self-awareness and healing for HSP men often hinges on one pivotal factor: finding the right kind of help. It is not enough to simply encourage therapy—we must ensure that therapy is capable of meeting sensitive men where they are. As more men discover their sensitivity, the field must evolve to support them. By pushing for systemic changes, supporting therapist education, and building community-based directories, we can help HSP men access the deep, empathetic support they deserve. Sensitivity is not a liability but a path to deeper connection, meaning, and authenticity. It is time our mental health systems caught up with this truth. References:
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The Sensitive Man - From Overthinking to Insight: Turning Deep Processing into Your Superpower3/18/2025  A Blog about Sensory Processing Sensitivity from the Worldview of a High-Sensing Male
Word Count: 955 Estimated Reading Time: 4:01 minutes. If you’re a highly sensitive man (HSP), you’ve likely experienced the double-edged sword of deep thinking. On the one hand, your mind processes the world in intricate detail, leading to profound insights. On the other, this depth can lead to overthinking, second-guessing, and mental exhaustion. Have you ever found yourself replaying past conversations, analyzing every detail of a decision, or getting lost in an endless spiral of “what-ifs”? If so, you’re not alone. While deep processing is a natural trait of HSPs, it can become overwhelming when it becomes rumination. But here’s the good news: your ability to think deeply is not a flaw—it’s a superpower when used intentionally. In this article, we’ll explore shifting from unproductive overthinking to actionable insights, using techniques like journaling, mindfulness, reframing, intuition, and flow states. By effectively channeling deep thought, you can transform mental clutter into clarity, creativity, and personal growth. Understanding Deep Processing in HSP Men What Is Deep Processing? Highly sensitive people (HSPs) process information more deeply than the average person. According to Dr. Elaine Aron, who pioneered the research on high sensitivity, HSPs have a more active default mode network (DMN) in the brain, which is linked to introspection and complex thinking (Aron, 1997). Unlike fast thinkers who make quick decisions, HSPs take in more details, emotions, and connections, often leading to nuanced, big-picture insights. However, without direction, this depth can turn into mental paralysis—where thinking becomes a barrier to action instead of a tool for insight. The Difference Between Insight and Rumination Rumination = Replaying the same thoughts without finding solutions (Nolen-Hoeksema, 2000). Insight = Deep thinking that leads to clarity, decisions, and action. When deep processing stays in loops, it creates stress, anxiety, and indecision. When guided toward insight, it generates wisdom, intuition, and creativity. The key is learning to interrupt unproductive rumination and shift toward meaningful reflection. Practical Strategies to Shift Overthinking into Insight Journaling for Clarity One of the best ways to break free from looping thoughts is to externalize them through writing. Journaling helps slow down racing thoughts, identify patterns, and create structure out of mental chaos. Try these journal prompts:
Research has shown that expressive writing reduces anxiety and improves mental clarity by helping the brain organize complex thoughts (Pennebaker & Seagal, 1999). Mindfulness and Present Awareness Overthinking often stems from focusing on the past (regret) or the future (anxiety). Mindfulness helps bring attention back to the present moment, where clarity and action are possible. Techniques to break the overthinking cycle:
Reframing Negative Thought Loops Cognitive reframing helps shift self-critical or self-doubtful thoughts into constructive ones. Example: 🚫 “I always overthink and never take action.” ✅ “My deep thinking allows me to make well-informed, thoughtful decisions.” By actively restructuring negative thoughts, HSPs can reduce mental self-sabotage and turn deep thinking into a source of confidence instead of doubt (Beck, 1979). Unlocking Intuition and Creative Insight Tapping into Unconscious Learned Material The mind absorbs far more information than we consciously realize. This implicit knowledge can be tapped into through intuition and pattern recognition (Reber, 1993). Ways to stimulate intuitive thinking:
Creating Flow State for Productivity and Creativity Flow state occurs when you are deeply immersed in an activity that challenges and engages you at the right level (Csikszentmihalyi, 1990). How to enter flow:
Moving from Passive Thinking to Active Thinking Active Thinking vs. Passive Thinking èPassive thinking = Letting thoughts spiral without direction. èActive thinking = Directing thoughts toward solutions, insights, or actions. To shift from passive to active thinking, try:
Embracing Slow but Powerful Thinking Society often values fast, battlefield-style decision-making—but deep processing offers something equally powerful: big-picture, nuanced insight. Many of history’s greatest thinkers (Einstein, Da Vinci, Tesla) were deep processors who transformed their complexity of thought into world-changing ideas. Rather than seeing deep thinking as a weakness, embrace it as a superpower that allows you to notice connections, develop unique perspectives, and create meaningful solutions. Conclusion Being an HSP man means thinking deeply, feeling deeply, and noticing details others overlook. While overthinking can feel overwhelming, it is not a flaw but a strength when directed with purpose. Takeaways: ✔ Journaling clarifies mental clutter. ✔ Mindfulness breaks overthinking loops. ✔ Reframing shifts self-doubt into confidence. ✔ Tapping into intuition unlocks unconscious insights. ✔ Flow states transform deep processing into creativity. By practicing these techniques, you can stop getting stuck in mental loops and use your deep thinking to create, innovate, and thrive. Call to Action: What’s one technique you’ll try today? Let’s start the conversation below! References:
The Sensitive Man - Parenting Sensitive Boys Well (4 Steps & 4 Tips) -Guest Blog by Lauren Hunter3/5/2025   Growing up with unsupportive or non-sensitive parents can be highly challenging for sensitive boys and girls. Rarely does a highly sensitive person escape childhood without incurring a few emotional wounds. Many of us had parents who didn’t understand our highly sensitive nature and didn’t have the skills or insights to parent us sensitive kids well. If you suspect that you were a highly sensitive child but didn’t get the support you needed, chances are as a parent, you are looking to avoid the pitfalls they made to raise well-adjusted, connected, and attached boys (and girls) who will become thoughtful, respectful, well-adjusted adults. In this article, I’ll be providing an overview for parents of sensitive boys plus some wins I’ve experienced in parenting my two sons. Step #1 - Am I a highly sensitive person (HSP)? The first step to understand yourself as a parent and to understand your potentially sensitive child is to take the highly sensitive person test on the HSPerson.com website. Once you’ve taken this test, review the results and ponder this for yourself: Did you get what you needed as a child? Perhaps taking inventory on your childhood would be a useful exercise to reflect back on things your parents did well, and things they didn’t do well. Make a note of some of the things you’d like to avoid, as well as things you’d like to repeat. Being intentional is key to understanding yourself and your sensitive son. Another aspect of sensitivity to think about is what messages you received from your parents and from society as it relates to masculinity. Did you have a dad who prioritized sports and accomplishments over quieter activities and relationships? Taking a closer look at what messages you were brought up to think were ‘normal’ for boys can go a long way in being intentional as you raise your sensitive sons. Step #2 - Is my partner a highly sensitive person (HSP)? The next step in evaluating building a good environment for your sensitive son is to gauge your partner’s sensitivity. Have them take the HSP test using the link above and share their results, if they are willing. It’s perfectly okay if you or your partner are not sensitive. This is a learning experience for everyone. Just because one or both parents are not sensitive, does not mean that they will be bad parents to a sensitive boy. As with any other personality trait or interest, parents can prioritize the emotional wellbeing of their kids and find resources to meet their needs. Practicing attachment parenting is one valid way to meet the needs of sensitive boys. My firstborn son was an extremely high need baby. He cried when anyone but me held him, he didn’t want to sleep apart from me, nursed around the clock, and seemed high strung. All the parenting books I read to prepare for becoming a mom were useless. When I came across Attachment Parenting, by Dr. William Sears, I found it full of tips to meet the child’s needs according to them and what they needed to feel happy, satiated, and connected. As a very sensitive woman and mom, it came naturally to focus on attachment to help my son feel safe. As we navigated the toddler and early elementary school years while meeting our son’s needs, he gradually became less dependent on us as parents and was well-adjusted with good people skills. I credit the early years of listening to his needs and meeting them with the reduction of neediness and anxiety. Step #3 - Is my son a highly sensitive child (HSC)? This brings us to step three. You might suspect that a toddler or very young child is sensitive, but you can’t be entirely sure until they are able to respond to the HSC test devised by Dr. Elaine Aron. Some of the questions on this test include:
Step #4 - Where can I find resources to get educated about HSCs? There are a small handful of coaches and therapists who specialize in highly sensitive kids. In looking back, it would have been helpful to have these resources. If neither you nor your partner are HSPs, I would highly recommend seeking out an HSC expert to coach you through the early parenting years. It’s also important to rule out any behaviors that may warrant a closer evaluation for any larger problems such as ADHD or Autism. The Highly Sensitive Child, by Dr. Elaine N. Aron is also a wonderful book full of resources for many of the ages and stages of a child’s life. In this book, Aron walks the reader through the challenges of raising an HSC, how to parent when you yourself are not sensitive, and much, much more. Dr. Aron advises that having a top-notch temperament counselor or therapist on hand is advisable. Now that we’ve reviewed some of the basics, here are four tips to help you become the best parent you can be to your highly sensitive son or sons. Tip #1 – Pace Your Social and Extra-Curricular Commitments – Kids often innately know what they do and do not want to do. Before suggesting your son take on a new sport, hobby, team, group such as Boy Scouts, honor their “pause and check” instinct by offering to take them to watch. Allowing him to observe a soccer game or go to a Boy Scout meeting can help them know what they are getting into. Discuss the requirements such as how many practices, games, events, and volunteer requirements. Often what can start out as excitement, ends up drudgery when they have many events that lead to overwhelm or burnout. Throughout my boys’ education – from elementary school, to middle school, to high school – we’d have discussions around the commitments of sports, clubs, and other organizations such as church. It is easier than ever to overcommit your kids (and yourselves as parents). Taking things slow, and listening to your kids is vital. Try out one new thing at a time and offer a way out if it becomes too much. Tip #2 – Prioritize Healthy Diet, Good Sleep, and Sacred Family Time – Sensitive kids know they are different. They often feel like an outsider, older than their years and wiser than some of the adults in their lives. They take it so much more stimuli than other non-sensitive kids. Because of this, they will need more rest, they will feel the effects of fast food or low nutritional diets, and they cherish belonging to a family most of all. Take tender care with them and remind them that honoring their bodies is important. Teach them self-care as young kids – it’s never too early! My younger son, now in high school, is a starting pitcher on his high school’s baseball team. Each night after practice, he comes home, eats a good dinner, and climbs into our hot tub for 20 minutes. He tells me that it relaxes all his muscles and allows him to sleep more deeply and wake up refreshed. At 17, he learned (through a myriad of injuries) how to take care of his body and his mind in order to perform at a top level. At this young age, he takes better care of himself than many middle-aged men! Tip #3 – Help Them at Their Own Pace – Often, sensitive boys seem quieter, reticent, or even painfully shy. They may not feel like making new friends, with the power plays on the playground causing them anxiety or worry. While trying to be positive and encouraging, sometimes well-meaning parents push their sons too much. “Why don’t you offer to have Declan over for a play date? He likes the Xbox, too!” Or, “You can go door-to-door selling for your soccer team, let me show you how it’s done.” Some things are life skills, others are not something an HSC is ever going to want to do. They just won’t. Big and choose your battles. Encourage them to advocate for themselves where it matters, and leave the rest for another day, or never. When my older son was about 10, I encouraged him to place his own order in line for burgers at our favorite chain. He said no, he didn’t want to. I let it go for another year, then tried again. At 11, he was still too nervous to ask. Fast forward to 13, and he had no problem correcting his burger made incorrectly. He could go out with friends and order at a sit-down restaurant. It was a simple thing, but he was able to do this when he felt he could—and not a moment sooner. This is true for many HSCs. They won’t be pushed until they are ready. Respect their autonomy. It is easy to call them a name or criticize them – this is a warning. Don’t do it! I have made this mistake and it’s not pretty. If you do slip up – and you’re only human, it will happen – apologize for injuring your child. Be their ally, not their enemy. You are a team working to raise the best possible son. Tip #4 – Let Them See You Fail AND Apologize – To hinge on the last tip, sensitive boys value authenticity and depth. They will notice when you fail in general, and in parenting. We all fail, repeatedly, as parents. We get angry, we say things we don’t mean, and we criticize when we should be speaking positively. Let them see you fail but don’t leave it there. Model being humble, admitting you failed them, and ask for their forgiveness. More than anything – especially between a father and son – this modeling can cement their respect for you as a parent and develop your relationship more deeply and more quickly. Do this when your kids are young and keep doing it. None of us is a perfect parent, nor a perfect child. Being filled with humility and loving your child deeply with mutual respect and admiration can fill your life with such incredible joy as they transition into adulthood. As a mom to a fully launched 22-year-old son, I can say with confidence that loving your sensitive son well from the get-go is extremely hard work, and totally worth it. AuthorLauren Hunter  A Blog about Sensory Processing Sensitivity from the Worldview of a High-Sensing Male
Word Count: 1084 Estimated Reading Time: 4:34 minutes. Suppose you are a highly sensitive man (HSP). In that case, you may have noticed something curious: while many online spaces discuss high sensitivity, very few HSP men actively participate in in-person gatherings, meetups, or community discussions. Why is that? Despite the benefits of connecting with like-minded individuals, many HSP men hesitate to join such spaces. Whether it's fear of judgment, societal pressure, or simply not knowing that these communities exist, participation rates remain low. But the good news is that these barriers are not insurmountable. In this article, we'll explore the key reasons why many HSP men avoid group participation, including:
By identifying these issues and offering solutions, we can help HSP men embrace their traits and engage with others who truly understand them. The Psychological and Emotional Barriers Denial of the Trait One of the first challenges HSP men face is simply accepting that they are highly sensitive. Many grow up in environments where sensitivity is viewed as a weakness, leading them to suppress or deny this fundamental part of their identity. Psychologist and researcher Dr. Elaine Aron, who pioneered the study of highly sensitive people, notes that HSPs process information deeply and are more affected by stimuli than others (Aron, 1997). However, without education, many men misunderstand their heightened awareness and emotional depth as flaws rather than strengths. Denying one's sensitivity can lead to social isolation, as HSP men may resist seeking support from others who share their experiences. This resistance creates a cycle of avoidance, making it even harder for them to engage in communities designed for their needs. Fear of Criticism and Judgment Even when HSP men acknowledge their sensitivity, they may fear being judged for it. Many have had painful experiences of being called "too sensitive" or "weak" in childhood, leading them to develop protective behaviors, such as avoiding social situations where they feel vulnerable. This fear often manifests as social anxiety. Research has shown that HSPs are more prone to overstimulation and rumination, making them highly sensitive to negative feedback (Pluess, 2015). Attending a group event requires stepping out of one's comfort zone, and for many HSP men, the possibility of criticism outweighs the potential benefits. Lack of Education About High Sensitivity Some HSP men avoid participation simply because they don't fully understand their traits. If they view high sensitivity as a weakness, they may resist seeking out others who identify as HSPs. However, when HSP men educate themselves on the trait, they often experience a shift in perspective. They learn sensitivity is linked to deep empathy, creativity, and intuition. In fact, studies have found that highly sensitive individuals contribute meaningfully to society because of their ability to process emotions and information at a profound level (Aron & Aron, 1997). Societal and Cultural Factors Outdated Views on Masculinity One of the biggest obstacles for HSP men is the societal expectation that men should be stoic, tough, and emotionally restrained. Traditional masculinity norms discourage vulnerability, making it difficult for HSP men to embrace their natural sensitivity. Research shows that men who strongly identify with traditional masculinity often struggle with expressing emotions and seeking support (Mahalik, Burns, & Syzdek, 2007). Because high sensitivity is frequently misunderstood as a weakness, HSP men may feel ashamed of their emotional depth and avoid engaging with other sensitive men. This issue is compounded by the fact that most HSP spaces are predominantly female. While many HSP women are open about their traits, HSP men may feel out of place or hesitant to join communities where they are the minority. Avoiding Self-Exploration Another reason HSP men hesitate to participate in groups is their reluctance to confront internal conflicts. Exploring one's sensitivity can be emotionally intense, and some men would rather avoid the discomfort altogether. Studies on psychological flexibility—the ability to adapt to new situations and experiences—show that avoiding personal growth leads to increased anxiety and dissatisfaction often (Kashdan & Rottenberg, 2010). While facing one's sensitivity head-on can be challenging, it is usually the key to self-acceptance and confidence. Not Knowing a Community Exists For some HSP men, the biggest barrier is not knowing that there are spaces designed for them. Unlike extroverted social groups, HSP meetups and gatherings tend to be quieter, more introspective, and less widely advertised. Because of this, many HSP men assume they are alone in their experiences. They may not realize there are online forums, local meetups, and even retreats specifically for highly sensitive men. Books like The Strong and Sensitive Boy by Ted Zeff emphasize the importance of creating safe spaces where sensitive men can connect without judgment (Zeff, 2020). How to Overcome These Barriers The Role of Education in Embracing Sensitivity Understanding high sensitivity is the first step toward overcoming social reluctance. Reading books, listening to podcasts, and engaging with HSP-friendly content can help men reframe their sensitivity as a strength rather than a burden. Reframing Sensitivity as a Strength Instead of seeing high sensitivity as a weakness, HSP men should recognize its advantages. Many successful leaders, artists, and thinkers throughout history have been highly sensitive, using their deep insights to make a meaningful impact. Taking Small Steps Toward Social Engagement If joining a large group feels overwhelming, HSP men can start small. Engaging in one-on-one conversations, online discussions, or smaller meetups can make the transition easier. Finding or Creating Safe Spaces There are many HSP-friendly communities available for men who seek connection. Websites, Facebook groups, and forums offer opportunities to interact with like-minded individuals. If no local meetups exist, HSP men can consider starting their own small gatherings. Conclusion While many HSP men struggle with social participation, these barriers can be overcome. Highly sensitive men can find community and connection without fear of judgment through education, self-acceptance, and intentional engagement. Consider taking a small step today if you're an HSP man who has hesitated to join a gathering. Whether reading more about the trait, reaching out to a fellow HSP, or attending a low-pressure event, each action brings you closer to embracing your sensitivity. Call to Action:
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 A Blog about Sensory Processing Sensitivity from the Worldview of a High-Sensing Male
Word Count: 975 Estimated Reading Time: 4:06 minutes. The Misconceptions About HSP Men What does it mean to be a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)? According to Dr. Elaine Aron, who first coined the term in the 1990s, HSPs comprise about 15-20% of the population and have a biologically ingrained trait known as Sensory Processing Sensitivity (SPS). This means their nervous systems are more attuned to subtleties, process information more deeply, and respond more intensely to emotions and stimuli (The Highly Sensitive Person, Aron, 1997). While being highly sensitive comes with a wealth of strengths—empathy, intuition, creativity, and deep thinking—HSP men face unique challenges due to cultural expectations about masculinity. Many societies still hold outdated views associating strength with emotional stoicism and toughness. As a result, HSP men are often seen as too weak, too emotional, too slow in decision-making, or even "not masculine enough." This blog post seeks to challenge these stereotypes and shed light on the true nature of HSP men—highlighting their strength, depth, and resilience while offering strategies to overcome societal misperceptions. Common Stereotypes About HSP Men 1. Weakness & Emotional Fragility One of the most common misjudgments about HSP men is that they are emotionally weak simply because they express their feelings more openly. Society equates stoicism with strength, but in reality, emotional awareness is a powerful trait. Many HSP men endure intense emotional experiences but continue to show resilience, demonstrating mental toughness differently. 2. Too Difficult to Deal With Because HSP men process emotions deeply, they may be seen as "too complex" or "hard to understand." This misconception arises because their rich inner worlds require more reflection and careful communication. However, being thoughtful and emotionally intelligent should be viewed as an asset, not a liability. 3. Too Sensitive to Criticism HSPs tend to internalize criticism more than others, leading some to assume they are "too sensitive" to feedback. However, this heightened sensitivity does not mean they cannot handle constructive criticism—it simply means they process it deeply. This can lead to greater self-awareness and personal growth when approached in a supportive manner. 4. Not "Masculine" Enough One of the most damaging stereotypes is the notion that sensitivity and masculinity are mutually exclusive. Since HSP men express emotions and prioritize connection over dominance, they are often mislabeled as effeminate or not "manly" enough. This perception is rooted in outdated ideas of masculinity that ignore the reality that true strength includes emotional intelligence, empathy, and authenticity. 5. Overly Analytical & Slow to Act Because HSPs tend to process information thoroughly before making decisions, they may be seen as hesitant or indecisive. However, this thoughtful approach allows them to foresee potential consequences and make well-informed choices, a key strength in leadership, relationships, and personal development. The Truth About HSP Men 1. HSPs Are Emotionally Strong Contrary to the belief that sensitivity equals weakness, deep emotional processing leads to resilience. Studies show that HSPs endure and overcome challenges exceptionally well because they analyze their experiences and learn from them (The Highly Sensitive Person, Aron, 1997). 2. Sensitivity = Strength, Not Weakness Dr. Aron's research also suggests that HSPs tend to have higher intelligence, intuition, and creativity levels. HSP men excel in problem-solving, leadership, and relationship-building—all of which require strong mental and emotional faculties. 3. HSPs Are Highly Perceptive & Detail-Oriented Neuroscience research has found that HSPs have heightened brain activity in the insula, the area responsible for deep processing and emotional awareness. This makes them highly observant, excellent at reading social cues, and incredibly detail-oriented—key traits in many successful careers. 4. HSPs Are Thoughtful Decision-Makers, Not Indecisive While HSPs take longer to make decisions, this is because they analyze multiple outcomes and risk factors before acting. History is full of leaders like Carl Jung, Abraham Lincoln, and Albert Einstein, who all exhibited traits of high sensitivity and used their deep-thinking skills to shape the world. 5. Masculinity & Sensitivity Are Not Opposites Dr. Brené Brown's research in Dare to Lead (2018) highlights vulnerability and emotional intelligence as key leadership strengths. The outdated notion that masculinity requires emotional suppression is slowly being replaced by a new understanding of strength that includes authenticity and emotional depth. How to Overcome the Perception Problem 1. Own Your Sensitivity as a Strength Instead of seeing sensitivity as a flaw, reframe it as an advantage. Self-affirmations like "My emotional depth gives me strength" and "I bring unique insight to my relationships and work" can help shift the internal narrative. 2. Educate Others About HSPs Many misconceptions stem from a lack of understanding. By educating friends, family, and colleagues about the strengths of HSPs, you can change how they perceive sensitivity. 3. Set Boundaries & Build Confidence Confidence comes from knowing your worth and protecting your energy. Set clear boundaries with people who try to dismiss your sensitivity or pressure you to conform to a rigid idea of masculinity. 4. Challenge the Outdated Definition of Masculinity True masculinity is not about suppressing emotions but about being authentic and courageous in expressing them. Embracing emotional depth as a power source rather than Weakness can help shift societal expectations. 5. Find Community & Support One of the most powerful ways to combat stigma is connecting with other HSP men. Whether through online forums, men's support groups, or books on high sensitivity, finding like-minded individuals can reinforce the value of your traits. (Check out our HSP Men’s Online group) Conclusion: Redefining Strength for HSP Men HSP men are not weak, indecisive, or overly emotional—they are deep thinkers, empathetic leaders, and powerful observers. The traditional narrative about masculinity is evolving, and HSPs are at the forefront of that change. By owning their sensitivity, educating others, and setting boundaries, HSP men can break free from harmful stereotypes and embrace their true identity. The time has come to redefine masculinity to include depth, emotional intelligence, and authenticity—all qualities that HSP men embody naturally. References & Resources
 A Blog about Sensory Processing Sensitivity from the Worldview of a High-Sensing Male
Word Count: 831 Estimated Reading Time: 3:30 minutes. Being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) is often portrayed as a unique gift that bestows upon us deep emotional insight, boundless empathy, and an almost mystical ability to navigate the world with grace. But is this the full picture? Why do we so often present HSPs, particularly HSP men, as enlightened, introspective, and emotionally mature beings? Is this an aspirational identity we strive toward, or are we inadvertently whitewashing the real and often messy experiences of sensitivity? This blog explores the origins of the idealized HSP, the reality behind the label, and why embracing our imperfections is just as important as celebrating our strengths. The Idealized HSP: Where Does This Narrative Come From? The concept of high sensitivity was first widely introduced by psychologist Dr. Elaine Aron in The Highly Sensitive Person (1997). Her work highlighted the idea that 15-20% of the population processes stimuli more deeply, leading to stronger emotional and cognitive responses. Over time, this research became the foundation for a community of self-identified HSPs who saw their sensitivity as a defining trait. However, as HSP awareness grew, so did the tendency to paint an overly polished picture of what it means to be highly sensitive. Social media, self-help culture, and even marketing campaigns started to reinforce the idea that HSPs were uniquely gifted, emotionally wise, and naturally inclined toward personal growth. While these portrayals are empowering, they often overlook the real struggles HSPs face—such as anxiety, emotional overwhelm, and social isolation. The Reality: HSPs Are Not Perfect Despite the uplifting narratives, HSPs, like anyone else, have flaws, struggles, and personal baggage. Research shows that deep processing and high emotional responsiveness—core HSP traits—also come with challenges. Common Struggles of HSPs:
This side of high sensitivity is rarely discussed, yet it’s integral to the experience. By ignoring it, we risk creating unrealistic expectations that can leave HSPs feeling like they are “failing” at being sensitive. Why Do We Cling to the Idealized HSP? So, if the reality of being an HSP is more complex, why do we still uphold an idealized version?
While these reasons make sense, they can also create harmful pressure on HSPs to conform to an unrealistic standard. Not every HSP is emotionally enlightened, nor should they have to be. The Dangers of Over-Idealization The problem with portraying HSPs in a purely positive light is that it can lead to self-judgment, suppression of emotions, and a lack of genuine self-acceptance. Here’s why:
Embracing a Balanced View of HSPs We need to embrace a more nuanced, realistic perspective to move beyond the idealized HSP stereotype. HSPs are complex individuals who are:
Conclusion The idealized HSP is a comforting image but not the whole truth. By challenging this stereotype, we allow ourselves to be more authentic, vulnerable, and, ultimately, more human. High sensitivity is a powerful trait, but it is not a free pass to emotional mastery—it is a journey with all its highs and lows. Let’s open the conversation: Do you feel pressure to live up to the “perfect HSP” stereotype? Please share your thoughts in the comments or connect with our HSP community to explore these ideas further. Citations & References
 A Blog about Sensory Processing Sensitivity from the Worldview of a High-Sensing Male
Word Count: 1064 Estimated Reading Time: 4:29 minutes. Overthinking is a common struggle, but it can feel especially overwhelming for Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) men. The tendency to analyze deeply, weigh options carefully, and consider every possible outcome can lead to emotional exhaustion and indecision. However, many don’t realize that overthinking is often rooted in a natural trait called deep processing. Deep processing is one of the defining characteristics of high sensitivity, leading to enhanced awareness, empathy, and meaningful insights. But when left unchecked, it can easily spiral into analysis paralysis, making even simple decisions feel impossible. HSP men often experience this phenomenon due to their heightened sensitivity to external stimuli, social dynamics, and personal emotions. This article will explore deep processing, how it differs from overthinking, and how HSP men can harness it as a strength rather than letting it become a burden. Defining Deep Processing in HSP Men What is Deep Processing? Deep processing is the ability to analyze and engage with information at a profound level. HSP men often reflect deeply on their experiences, emotions, and surroundings, allowing them to see nuances and patterns others might overlook. This trait makes them insightful, empathetic, and thoughtful decision-makers. Unlike surface-level thinkers, those with deep processing tendencies find themselves considering the full spectrum of an issue before reaching a conclusion. The Neuroscience Behind Deep Processing Studies have shown that HSPs have increased brain activation in areas responsible for attention, emotion, and decision-making, such as the cingulate cortex and premotor area (PMC). This heightened activity explains why HSPs often feel overwhelmed by stimuli and why they tend to think through things more thoroughly than the average person. Research from Dr. Elaine Aron, who pioneered the study of high sensitivity, also confirms that HSPs process information more deeply than others (HSPerson). This means that when faced with a situation, HSP men don’t just register it at face value—they analyze the context, emotional implications, and long-term effects before making a decision. While this can lead to exceptional foresight, it can also become exhausting when every decision is approached with the same level of scrutiny. Overthinking vs. Deep Processing: Understanding the Difference Defining Overthinking Overthinking occurs when deep analysis turns into repetitive, unproductive thought loops. It often stems from fear of making the wrong decision, fear of failure, or fear of judgment. Rather than leading to clarity, overthinking creates stress and mental exhaustion. How Deep Processing Differs from Overthinking Unlike overthinking, deep processing is solution-oriented. It allows HSP men to reflect with purpose, leading to insightful conclusions. Overthinking, on the other hand, is driven by anxiety and doubt, trapping individuals in a cycle of indecision. When Deep Processing Becomes Overthinking Deep processing crosses into overthinking when it:
HSP men are particularly prone to this due to their natural inclination to think things through carefully. Recognizing when thoughtful reflection turns into counterproductive rumination is key to breaking the cycle. The Dual Nature of Deep Processing The Gifts
The Challenges
Recognizing Analysis Paralysis What is Analysis Paralysis? Analysis paralysis happens when an individual becomes so overwhelmed by choices that they struggle to make any decision at all. For HSP men, this can be particularly frustrating, as their natural deep processing makes them prone to overthinking even minor choices. Signs and Symptoms
Strategies to Leverage Deep Processing Without Getting Stuck 1. Set Decision-Making Time Limits If you tend to overthink decisions, set a specific time frame for making choices. This prevents excessive rumination and encourages action. 2. Prioritize Decisions Not all decisions require deep analysis. Identify which ones truly matter and streamline less significant choices. 3. Practice Mindfulness and Grounding Techniques Mindfulness helps bring your focus back to the present, reducing the mental clutter that leads to overthinking. Techniques like deep breathing, meditation, or grounding exercises can help balance thoughts. 4. Limit Information Intake HSPs often feel the need to gather as much information as possible before making a decision. However, too much information can lead to overwhelm. Trust yourself to make informed choices with the knowledge you already have. 5. Seek Support When Needed Talking through decisions with a trusted friend, therapist, or mentor can help bring clarity and prevent you from getting stuck in an overthinking spiral. Embracing Deep Processing as a Strength Deep processing is a powerful trait that, when understood and managed, can lead to profound personal and professional success. Rather than viewing it as a burden, HSP men can embrace it as an essential part of who they are. They can navigate the world with confidence and clarity by setting boundaries, practicing mindfulness, and recognizing the fine line between reflection and overthinking. Conclusion Deep processing is both a gift and a challenge for HSP men. While it enables profound insight and empathy, it can also lead to overthinking and analysis paralysis when left unchecked. The key to managing this trait lies in self-awareness, strategic decision-making, and embracing it as a strength rather than a burden. By learning to recognize when deep processing turns into overthinking, implementing mindfulness techniques, and setting decision-making boundaries, HSP men can leverage their natural depth of thought to enrich their lives rather than overwhelm them.  A Blog about Sensory Processing Sensitivity from the Worldview of a High-Sensing Male
Word Count: 934 Estimated Reading Time: 3:56 minutes. Empathy is a gift; for highly sensitive men (HSPs), it’s often a defining trait. HSPs have a heightened ability to tune into the emotions of others, making them excellent listeners, compassionate friends, and insightful partners. However, this unique strength comes with challenges. Absorbing the feelings of others can lead to emotional exhaustion, leaving you drained and overwhelmed. So, how can you remain compassionate without carrying the emotional weight of everyone around you? This guide will explore strategies for setting emotional boundaries, clearing your energy, and creating a lifestyle that allows you to harness empathy without sacrificing your well-being. The Gift and Challenge of Empathy What is Empathy? Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. It comes in two primary forms:
HSP men excel in emotional empathy, which allows them to connect deeply with others. However, this also makes them more susceptible to emotional contagion—the phenomenon where emotions spread from one person to another (Hatfield et al., Emotional Contagion). Why Empathy Feels Draining for HSP Men Imagine this: A colleague shares their stress about a looming deadline, and you hear their frustration and feel it physically and emotionally. By the end of the conversation, you’re as tense as they are, even though the deadline isn’t yours. This scenario highlights how emotional empathy can blur boundaries, making it hard to distinguish between your emotions and those of others. Recognizing this dynamic is the first step in addressing emotional exhaustion. Recognizing the Signs of Emotional Exhaustion Common Symptoms Emotional exhaustion manifests in several ways:
Why Awareness is Key Awareness is the foundation of managing empathy. Ask yourself, “Am I feeling my emotions or someone else’s?” For example, an HSP man might notice his mood shift dramatically after spending time with a pessimistic friend. This realization can prompt a conscious effort to reset boundaries and protect his energy. Setting Emotional Boundaries Why Boundaries Matter Empathy doesn’t mean taking responsibility for others’ emotions. Emotional boundaries help you maintain compassion without becoming overwhelmed. Practical Strategies
Energy-Clearing Practices Physical Practices
Compassion Without Absorption Empathy vs. Responsibility One of the most important lessons for HSP men is understanding the difference between supporting someone and solving their problems. For example, if a teammate is overwhelmed, you can help them brainstorm solutions without internalizing their stress. How to Support While Staying Grounded
Building a Resilient Lifestyle Curate Your Circle Surround yourself with people who respect your boundaries and energy. Limit interactions with individuals who consistently drain your emotional reserves. Prioritize Solitude and Recharge Regularly carve out time for restorative activities, such as hobbies, reading, or spending time in nature. For example, an HSP man might plan a quiet weekend retreat after a demanding social event to recharge. Continuous Reflection Reflect on what drains or replenishes your energy. Journaling about your week can help you identify emotional fatigue patterns and adjust accordingly. Inspiring Stories: Empathy in Action Scenario 1: At Work An HSP man in a leadership role learns to delegate tasks instead of taking on the emotional burdens of his team. He becomes more effective and less overwhelmed by setting boundaries, leading to greater team productivity. Scenario 2: In Relationships A husband learns to support his partner during challenging times while prioritizing his self-care. He stays present without becoming emotionally depleted by setting time aside for reflection and practicing energy-clearing techniques. Conclusion Empathy is a superpower when managed wisely. HSP men can stay compassionate without burning out by setting boundaries, practicing energy-clearing techniques, and building a supportive lifestyle. Reflect on your current habits: What’s one boundary you can strengthen or one energy-clearing practice you can try this week? Share your experiences in the comments or explore further strategies in future blog posts. References
 A Blog about Sensory Processing Sensitivity from the Worldview of a High-Sensing Male Word Count: 932 Estimated Reading Time: 3:55 minutes. Highly Sensitive Men (HSP men) often experience emotions deeply and vividly, sometimes leading to emotional overwhelm and impulsive reactions. While part of the gift of sensitivity, these traits can also create challenges in maintaining balanced relationships and personal well-being. Emotional regulation, however, offers a pathway to navigating these challenges with grace and intentionality. This article explores practical tools for managing emotional reactivity, enabling HSP men to respond thoughtfully instead of reacting impulsively. By cultivating these skills, HSP men can foster healthier relationships, reduce stress, and embrace their sensitivity as a strength. The Science Behind Emotional Reactivity in HSPs Research shows that highly sensitive individuals often have an overactive amygdala, the brain region responsible for processing emotions, which leads to heightened emotional responses. Additionally, deeper processing in the brain’s prefrontal cortex contributes to intense emotional experiences (Aron, E., 2017). This biological framework explains why HSP men may struggle with emotional regulation but also highlights the potential for growth through intentional practices. The Challenges of Emotional Reactivity for HSP Men The Firehose of Emotion For HSP men, emotions can feel like a firehose, overwhelming and difficult to control. This intensity often leads to feelings of regret after reacting impulsively, strained relationships, and social exhaustion. Channeling these emotions into constructive responses is crucial for personal and relational health. Societal Expectations and Emotional Expression Society often places pressure on men to suppress their emotions, associating sensitivity with weakness. This stigma can lead HSP men to internalize their feelings, creating internal conflict and making emotional regulation even more challenging. Breaking free from these stereotypes is essential for emotional growth. Consequences of Reactivity Impulsive reactions can result in damaged relationships, increased stress, and cycles of self-doubt. By learning to pause and reflect, HSP men can replace reactive habits with thoughtful responses, leading to positive personal and professional outcomes. Understanding the Importance of Emotional Regulation Why Regulation Matters Emotional regulation enables HSP men to maintain their authenticity while managing overwhelm. It fosters healthier relationships, enhances self-esteem, and reduces stress. Responding thoughtfully instead of impulsively reacting creates space for intentionality and deeper connections. Self-Awareness as the Foundation Recognizing emotional triggers and understanding one’s emotional landscape is the cornerstone of emotional regulation. Self-awareness allows HSP men to identify patterns and address emotional challenges proactively. Practicing self-compassion further supports this journey, encouraging kindness toward oneself during difficult moments (Neff, K., 2019). Practical Tools for Emotional Regulation 1. Breathwork Techniques Box Breathing: This simple method involves inhaling for four counts, holding the breath for four counts, exhaling for four counts, and holding again for four counts. It calms the nervous system and reduces emotional intensity. Diaphragmatic Breathing: Deep belly breathing engages the parasympathetic nervous system, promoting relaxation and focus. Research supports breathwork as an effective tool for stress reduction (Nestor, J., 2020). 2. Mindfulness Practices Body Scanning: Tuning into physical sensations grounds emotions, helping HSP men stay present and reduce overwhelm. Present-Moment Awareness: Simple mindfulness exercises, such as focusing on the five senses, anchoring attention in the present, and reducing reactive tendencies. Studies show that mindfulness reduces emotional reactivity and enhances emotional control (Hölzel, B.K., 2011). The Power of Pausing Creating a “response gap”—the space between stimulus and reaction—is key to responding thoughtfully. Techniques like counting to ten or taking a brief walk provide time to process emotions and choose intentional actions. Journaling for Emotional Clarity Journaling helps process emotions and gain insight into triggers. Prompts such as “What am I feeling right now?” and “What story am I telling myself?” encourage reflection and clarity. Engaging the Parasympathetic Nervous System Techniques like progressive muscle relaxation and cold water immersion activate the body’s relaxation response, reducing stress and promoting calmness. 3. Building an Emotional First Aid Kit An emotional first aid kit might include calming music, essential oils, affirmations, or grounding objects. Having these tools readily available ensures preparation for emotional challenges. Long-Term Strategies for Emotional Mastery Reframing Emotional Triggers Cognitive reframing involves interpreting situations more positively. For example, viewing criticism as an opportunity for growth rather than a personal attack shifts the emotional response from defensive to constructive. Developing Empathy for Yourself Practicing self-kindness and letting go of perfectionism fosters resilience. Research on self-compassion highlights its role in emotional well-being and adaptive coping strategies (Neff, K., 2019). Seeking Support Connecting with others through therapy, support groups, or trusted friendships provides valuable perspective and guidance. Professional support can offer tailored strategies for managing emotional reactivity. Overcoming Obstacles and Staying Motivated Addressing Setbacks Even with the best tools, setbacks are inevitable. Viewing these moments as learning opportunities rather than failures supports continued growth. Emphasizing progress over perfection helps maintain motivation. Consistency Is Key Regular practice of emotional regulation techniques builds habits that support long-term emotional mastery. Small, consistent efforts create lasting change and resilience. Conclusion HSP men possess unique strengths, including empathy, intuition, and depth of feeling. By learning to respond thoughtfully rather than impulsively, they can harness these traits as assets in their personal and professional lives. Embrace the journey of emotional growth by trying one of the tools shared in this article today. Share your experiences or challenges in the comments, and celebrate the progress you make along the way. References
 The Sensitive Man – The Art of Saying No: Protecting Your Energy as a Highly Sensitive Man1/22/2025  A Blog about Sensory Processing Sensitivity from the Worldview of a High-Sensing Male Word Count: 1194 Estimated Reading Time: 5:02 minutes. As a highly sensitive man, navigating the demands of modern life can feel overwhelming. With heightened empathy and a natural tendency to overcommit, many HSP (Highly Sensitive Person) men struggle to set boundaries. Saying "no" often feels like a rejection of others, but it's essential for protecting your energy and maintaining your well-being. Highly sensitive men often grapple with finding a balance between their needs and the expectations of others. Without clear boundaries, their mental, emotional, and physical health can suffer, leading to burnout and strained relationships. Learning the art of saying no is not about selfishness; it's about creating space for authenticity and deeper connections. How can you confidently decline invitations, obligations, or responsibilities without damaging relationships? This article explores the challenges of saying no, the hidden costs of always saying yes, and practical strategies to set boundaries while fostering authentic connections. Why Saying "No" is Challenging for HSP Men Societal Pressures Men are often expected to embody strength, dependability, and unwavering agreement. For highly sensitive men, these cultural expectations can be particularly stifling. Dr. Elaine Aron's research highlights how HSPs, especially men, internalize these pressures, making it harder to assert their needs. Traditional definitions of masculinity discourage vulnerability, leaving HSP men feeling they must suppress their sensitivity to fit societal norms. For example, in professional settings, sensitive men might agree to extra projects or take on tasks outside their scope to avoid appearing incapable. This dynamic perpetuates stress and a sense of inadequacy, as their true capabilities often go unrecognized when overwhelmed. Innate Empathy Highly sensitive men are naturally empathetic and attuned to the emotions of others. While this is a strength, it can lead to overcommitment as they prioritize others' feelings over their needs. For example, consider an HSP man who agrees to take on extra work to help a colleague, only to feel drained and resentful later. This tendency stems from a genuine desire to avoid hurting others, but can come at a significant cost. In relationships, this empathy often manifests as an unwillingness to set limits with loved ones. Whether it's accommodating a partner's schedule or always saying yes to social plans, HSP men may find themselves neglecting their need for downtime and self-care. The Hidden Costs of Always Saying "Yes" Emotional and Physical Toll Constantly saying yes can lead to overwhelm, burnout, and chronic stress. A study published in the Journal of Occupational Health Psychology found that overcommitment significantly increases the risk of mental and physical exhaustion, especially in individuals prone to emotional sensitivity. This overextension often leaves little time for rest and rejuvenation, compounding stress over time. Overcommitment can also lead to difficulty focusing and decreased productivity. Even tasks you normally enjoy can feel burdensome when you're stretched too thin. This creates a cycle of diminished self-worth, where your inability to meet expectations becomes a source of frustration and guilt. Impact on Relationships When boundaries are repeatedly ignored, resentment and frustration can build. For instance, saying yes to a friend's constant invitations despite needing downtime can eventually lead to avoidance or strained interactions. By overextending yourself, you risk eroding the very relationships you're trying to preserve. Moreover, always saying yes conveys that your time and energy are limitless. Over time, this can result in others taking your availability for granted, making it even harder to establish boundaries when you truly need them. The Mindset Shift: "No" as a Positive Act Protecting Energy for Authentic Engagement Saying no is not about rejection; it's an investment in your energy and well-being. When you protect your boundaries, you're better equipped to show up authentically in your relationships. Research by the American Psychological Association reveals that assertive boundary-setting is directly linked to higher self-esteem and healthier connections. You also create space for meaningful activities and relationships by learning to say no. This intentionality fosters deeper connections because you're engaging from a place of abundance rather than exhaustion. Respecting Yourself and Others Clear communication fosters mutual respect. By saying no with kindness and clarity, you demonstrate self-awareness and a commitment to honesty, strengthening trust in relationships. Additionally, modeling boundary-setting can inspire others to prioritize their well-being, creating a ripple effect in your social and professional circles. Practical Strategies for Saying No Without Guilt Pause Before Responding Give yourself time to evaluate your energy levels before committing. For example, respond with, "Let me check my schedule and get back to you," to avoid impulsive agreements. This practice allows you to assess whether a request aligns with your priorities. Kind Yet Assertive Responses Polite but firm language ensures your message is clear without offending. Examples include:
Offering Alternatives If appropriate, suggest a compromise or alternative. For instance, "I can't help this weekend, but I'd be happy to pitch in next time." Offering solutions shows that you value the relationship while respecting your limits. Body Language and Tone Non-verbal cues reinforce sincerity and confidence when setting boundaries, like maintaining eye contact and using a calm tone. This alignment between words and actions ensures your message is well-received. Balancing Boundaries and Relationships Communicating Needs Transparently Open dialogue prevents misunderstandings. For example, declining a work project by saying, "I want to ensure I give my full attention to my current priorities," shows your commitment to quality over quantity. Transparency fosters understanding and reduces the likelihood of conflict. Reassuring Loved Ones Explain how saying no allows you to be more present and engaged long-term. For example, telling a friend, "I need some downtime to recharge, but let's catch up next week," conveys care and intention. Reassuring others helps them see that your boundaries are not a reflection of disinterest but a step toward preserving the relationship. Building Confidence in Boundary-Setting Start Small To build your confidence, practice saying no in low-stakes situations, such as declining a casual coffee invitation. These small victories reinforce your ability to set limits effectively. Celebrate Wins Acknowledge moments when setting a boundary led to positive outcomes, such as reduced stress or improved focus. Reflecting on these successes reinforces the value of maintaining boundaries. Learn from Feedback If someone reacts negatively, use their response as an opportunity to refine your approach. Over time, this practice strengthens your boundary-setting skills. Remember, not everyone will respond positively, but that doesn't invalidate your need to protect your energy. Conclusion: Your Energy is Your Greatest Asset Protecting your energy is an act of self-love and empowerment. By learning to say no with confidence and kindness, you create space for authentic connections and personal growth. Saying no isn't about shutting people out but inviting them into a relationship built on respect and understanding. Take a moment to reflect: Where have you been over-committing in your life? Choose one area to start setting boundaries today. Say no to one non-essential request this week and observe how it positively impacts your well-being. References
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AuthorBill Allen currently lives in Bend, Oregon. He is a certified hypnotist and brain training coach , author and advocate for HSP Men. He believes that male sensitivity is not so rare, but it can be confounding for most males living in a culture of masculine insensitivity which teaches boys and men to disconnect from their feelings and emotions. His intent is to use this blog to chronicle his personal journey and share with others. 
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