A Blog about Sensory Processing Sensitivity from the Worldview of a High-Sensing Male
Total words 1099, Time to read: 6 minutes 0 seconds Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs) hold a special place in the realm of creativity. Their innate ability for deep processing, keen observation, emotional acuity, and sensitivity to subtleties allows them to produce art that resonates deeply with others. Many renowned artists, including Robin Williams, Steve Martin, Elton John, John Lennon, Neil Young, and others, have been considered highly sensitive, contributing immensely to the richness of art and culture. Recently, I viewed a documentary on the life and times of Steve Martin, the American comedian. I have always enjoyed his absurdist, "wild and crazy guy" comedy. I watched his act in the early days after he began touring college campuses in the 70s. He appeared so cool and in control of things. In fact, after his appearance at the campus student center, he led a bunch of us students out onto the back of the Golden Spur, where an empty fountain area became a human swimming pool. We passed him around over our heads like a frenzied mosh pit, and I was amazed at his ability to control a drunk and stoned college crowd like the pied piper. I left shortly after that, but the antics continued. He led the diminishing crowd off the campus into a McDonalds, with one hundred students in tow, and ordered one French fry. Not a bag, but one French fry to the crowd's delight and the poor clerk's consternation, who had to explain they didn't serve singular fries. These antics later appeared in an article in Rolling Stone magazine featuring an interview with Martin. The documentary highlighted some of these acts of comedy. Still, it wasn't until later in the documentary, when it was revealed more about Martin's shyness, introversion, and sensitivity, that I realized the heavy toll it took on his personality to be the star he had always craved. Many highly sensitive people are ironically drawn to become celebrities, largely fueled by desires for acceptance and driven by our unique creativity. The price to be paid is often heavy, including seclusion, depression, drug and alcohol abuse, and sometimes unfortunately, an early death. This blog is dedicated to those brave souls who ventured beyond their comfort zones and dove headfirst into the pool of superstardom. Some survived, others didn't. The Creative Edge of Sensitivity Sensitivity in artists is not just a personality trait; it's a tool that enriches their creative process. It enables HSPs to see the world differently, feel emotions more intensely, and translate these experiences into their art, making it deeply nuanced and impactful. This unique perspective allows their work to touch people on a profound level, whether through painting, writing, acting, or any other form of artistic expression. The Price of Sensitive Creativity However, this sensitivity comes at a cost. The traits that fuel their creativity can also lead to significant personal challenges, especially when mixed with the pressures of fame and success. The intense depth of feeling and empathy can lead to overwhelm, depression, internal self-doubts, and loneliness. Furthermore, the struggle to balance sensitivity with the public scrutiny that often accompanies success can drive some to use and abuse drugs and alcohol as a coping mechanism. The Impact of Fame on HSP Artists The stories of many celebrated artists illustrate how fame can exacerbate the challenges HSPs face. For instance, the intense public spotlight and the demands of their careers have led many sensitive artists to confront personal turmoil, with some struggling in their battles with substance abuse and depression. These challenges underscore the complex relationship between sensitivity, creativity, and fame, highlighting the need for support and understanding. Preventative Measures and Coping Strategies Yet, the narrative that sensitivity must inevitably lead to suffering under the weight of success is one we can change. There are several strategies that HSP artists can employ to manage their sensitivity and mitigate the pressures of fame: - Setting Boundaries: Learning to say no and protecting personal time can help manage the overwhelm. It's not always about making more, doing more, and scaling new heights. Learning to take things in measured steps allows for assimilation. - Supportive Communities: Finding or creating communities that understand and share the HSP trait can provide invaluable support. I imagine it would not be hard to find fellow HSPs in the creative community. Education and acceptance will allow the HSP celeb to navigate the sometimes treacherous waters of fame. - Self-Care: Prioritizing self-care through mindfulness, exercise, and hobbies can help maintain mental and emotional balance. - Therapeutic Options: Counseling or therapy can offer strategies to manage sensitivity and the challenges that come with it. Redefining Success for the Sensitive Artist Success for the HSP artist does not have to mean sacrificing well-being for art's sake. It's possible to redefine success to include personal fulfillment, balance, and mental health alongside artistic achievement. This redefinition encourages HSP artists to strive for a model of success that honors their sensitivity as a strength rather than a hindrance. We must prevent the familiar script of tragic artists trampled by adoring fans and pressured by greedy and corrupt handlers. Conclusion The artistic contributions of HSPs are undeniably valuable, bringing depth, nuance, and emotion to the cultural landscape. While the challenges they face are real, HSP artists can navigate their paths to success without sacrificing their well-being with the right support and strategies. It's a call to action for the art community, mental health professionals, and society to provide the understanding and support sensitive artists need to thrive. The artists nourish our souls, and it's time we protected theirs. Additional Resources For HSP artists seeking support, consider exploring the following resources: - The Highly Sensitive Person by Dr. Elaine N. Aron: A book and website offering insights into the trait of high sensitivity. https://hsperson.com - Sensitive—The Untold Story: A documentary featuring the experiences of highly sensitive people, including artists. - Mindful: Offers resources on mindfulness practices that can help manage sensitivity. https://mindful.org - The National Coalition for Creative Arts Therapies Associations (NCCATA): Provides information on arts therapies that can be particularly beneficial for HSP artists. https://www.nccata.org/ - Online Communities: Platforms like Julie Bjelland's Sensitive Empowerment, The Highly Sensitive Refuge, and Jules DeVitto's Highly Sensitive Humans offer forums for HSPs to share experiences and find support. https://www.juliebjelland.com/ https://highlysensitiverefuge.com/ https://www.highlysensitivehumans.com/ The journey of the HSP artist is filled with both challenges and rewards. Recognizing the value of sensitivity in the creative process while also addressing the personal costs of this trait is essential. With support, understanding, and practical strategies for managing sensitivity, HSP artists can succeed without sacrificing, contributing their unique voice to the art world.
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AuthorBill Allen currently lives in Bend, Oregon. He is a certified hypnotist and brain training coach , author and advocate for HSP Men. He believes that male sensitivity is not so rare, but it can be confounding for most males living in a culture of masculine insensitivity which teaches boys and men to disconnect from their feelings and emotions. His intent is to use this blog to chronicle his personal journey and share with others. Archives
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